I typically will just use whatever song the bride & groom danced to in their first dance, however I will sometimes use other music that was in the wedding. If the bride & groom request a specific song I can certainly accommodate any requests.
I typically have highlight videos ready 20-30 weeks after the event. The entire video (Flash drive, DVDs, On Demand Site, mp4 files, raw footage) is ready approximately 10-12 months after the wedding. This is an approximate time, it will sometimes vary greatly based...